Moyo Lawal continues to trend for very vulgar and obscene reasons. She’s bares all for the public and keeps trying to prove she does not care what anybody thinks. What exactly is the appeal for women where they continue to respond to their urges of going almost naked publicly? Does she not have anyone at all, a Mother, a Father, a guide, good friends who can call her to order?

How are people able to boldly call God on things where His instructions are clear, direct and straightforward? Well, Moyo Lawal should remember everything you do, will stand against you before God, they will stand as witnesses against you, just like these pictures she is always so happy to share.

In the Quran and Bible are clear verses about modest, proper dressing. Trashy can never be classy even if you wear a crown on your head or call yourself a queen. Young ladies, know your role models, Young men, stop encouraging ladies into stupidity when they share questionable pictures and you go drooling all over their pages.

Drop your thoughts on this in the comment section.


Okay let’s just go straight to the point. As a man, what are your moral codes? This is an era where anything goes, an era where finding a well put together man, is like searching for a needle in a haystack. Too many men not raising their standards, and too much of everything focusing so much more on women that I do fear sooner than later, we’ll have a great imbalance in society.

Think about it, from parenting in the homes giving more attention to the girls and the different empowerment programmes for the girl child and for women.

Check these out as a man and find out if they reflect you more or less, and you can tell where you stand. Are you a real gentle man, or just another piece of ***t wasting air and space? Pardon the language.


I can’t do this or that. I never did this or that in my life. If you grew with a wrong set of lessons, adulthood is your life to take a hold of. If you think when you get married, your wife becomes your maid and MUST do the things you want, at all the times you want it. That’s rubbish. If you think that uncle or friend owes you anything, you are a joker. Too many people do not take responsibility for their lives.


What a person thinks in their mind is what they show on the outside. How a person dresses, says a lot about them. Do you take care of how you appear? Is it always torn jeans, dirty clothes, sagging trousers, long nails. There are people you will meet in life who will appraise you with just one look through how you appear before them, and that could make them write you off forever, this could be for a potential opportunity. Hairstyles and even how you smell are part of your codes as a man.


You get to see how many vulgar people are around from the comments made through the internet. If you haven’t cleansed your words as a man, there’s a problem. You are totally comfortable with saying rubbish, with typing rubbish. Take your words to be part of your person and your dressing. I especially pity those quick to call a female a whore and other nasty terms, because they just have to demean the female sex in that manner. Does this make them feel better about themselves?


A sexually loose lady is called different names, but a sexually loose man is often hailed as a champ. A real gentleman with a moral code understands that’s not the kind of life that brings greatness, fulfillment and blessings. A proudly sexually lax man, is just a public toilet with little respect for his own self or for others.


What is the nature of the company you surround yourself with as a man? As you grow, except you are not growing, your circle should change, change to become more valuable, more in line with what you want, wrong company has such a strong influence that you do not know when you’ll fall. Sometimes, the best way to save yourself is to stay far away from anything that does not serve you.


Lack of mental stimulation and a lack of willingness to move from the spot you are to see the change you want in your life. Instead, you think you will just “blow”, in the end, hope you actually don’t blow yourself into a non-existent blowing. Too many free courses online not to acquire some extra knowledge. Too many modern day skills to earn you a living than just hoping to “blow”

Men should stop forgetting their place as leaders and raise their standards. A man should have some firm sets of values and principles for his present life and his future life. Are you decent, kind, selfless, chivalrous, have a sense of responsibility for yourself and for others under your care, or who look up to you? Are you hardworking, physically and mentally? Ignore the nay Sayers, living well pays off well,it gives you peace and respect and sustained success.

Let these serve as some of your moral codes.


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In our contemporary society today, the indecent ways of dressing adopted by both young men and women alike, has become an ubiquitous mantra, daily romanced by older members of the society, of which the blame is traditionally dumped at the doorsteps of the parents. But come to think of it, who should be responsible for the way you dress? The society? Your parents? The church? The government? The school? Or yourself? Let’s take a critical look at what indecent dressing is, the causes, consequences and ways we could curb or reduce it.

When one dresses inappropriately, like exposing some parts of their body that are meant to remain covered, or puts on an attire that do not suit a particular occasion or environment ( eg putting on bikinis on the street, putting on briefs to a formal gathering etc) , puts on an attire that is discomforting to the eyes of others, all these could be termed as indecent dressing.

The various styles of dressing among many young men and women today, are causing a lot of devastating effects on the moral upbringing of children and youth in the society. It has gotten worse to the extent that even young children are now being influenced by the older ones. More worrying is the fact that most students of higher institutions of learning , who, in no distant future will be writing applications to fill very responsible positions in the running of the society, who, therefore must parade themselves as role models, are themselves deeply rooted in this reprehensible act of indecent dressing.

The covering of our nakedness which is one of the most important reasons for dressing is no longer a thing to remember by the youths of today. Rather, the more naked one is , the more they are accepted among their peers. Infact, if a young man does not expose his boxer shorts, he is not counted among the ‘starboys’ of our society today. Those who dress with their trousers and shorts well tucked in are now referred to as ‘jews’. If a lady has not exposed parts of her thighs, breasts and other sensual parts, she is not ‘slaying’ yet. Quite pitiable it is.

The question that therefore arise is; if the youths are actually the leaders of tomorrow, what would become of our society when they are now at the helm of societal affairs? What can the society do to redress this ugly situation that is set to dwindle our moral values?
Before we can seek for a solution, we must first find out the major reasons why these things are so.

There is a popular saying that ‘charity begins at home’. Unarguably, the first place a child begins to learn morals from, is his home. No matter how bad or corrupt a society is, a child would not succumb to the trend if the home he is from, does not support it. Most parents don’t see anything wrong in the way most of their children dress, so why should they see anything wrong in it themselves?

Our moral and religious standards as a society are all coming to an all time low. Trends which wouldn’t have been accepted way back, are now being accepted today. This has gone a long way in deterriorating the quality of how the youths dress today.
The internet can also be said to be the major breeding ground for these things, as most youths won’t come across these trends in the first place, if there were no internet.

Lastly, i would add that on screen personalities and celebrities are the major originators of these things, as most people would want to copy anything a celebrity does, so as to be seen as them. If a celebrity wears torn jean on screen today, automatically, that becomes a trend tomorrow.

Some of the implications of indecent dressing in the society include rape, promotion of prostitution, it triggers sexual assault, younger ones being influenced by their elder ones they look up to as role models, increase in sexually transmitted diseases due to some of the aforementioned etc.

The way forward from this ugly situation is not also far fetched, as i would suggest that the government put in place stiff punishments for culprits of indecent dressing. The family, religious centers, schools, the media and all other bodies also need to help in the fight against indecent dressing.

In conclusion, I would leave you with this popular statement, ‘dress the way you wish to be addressed’.

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