The Moral Code is here to add a voice to correcting the problems of today’s society, one of the pressing matters which in particular scares a lot of people is the growing divorce rate. Not only do people get carried away with a budding romance, they also fail to ask questions which might have saved them from heart ache.

Not a lot of people are self-aware, being self-aware means knowing yourself well enough to understand your principles, standards, values and more, knowing yourself well enough helps you also know what you want in life and what is also absolutely unacceptable, so even though TMC is bringing you 90 questions to ask your would be life partner, some of these questions we need to also ask ourselves first.

Enjoy this list, which includes the obvious, the funny and of course the very serious questions you may never have thought about. You could have real sit out moments with your partner or simply throw them in at random moments, but make sure you pay attention to what they have to say. Some of these questions could be more applicable to the male than female folk and vice-versa.

Don’t just say “I do” because you might suddenly realize you don’t know this person well enough, remember to also ask yourself these questions to help you understand your own person better. There is power in knowing thyself.

Also note these questions could help you connect and be closer to your partner as well as know them better, aside being a means of evaluation.

  1. What’s your philosophy about life?
  2. What are some standards and principles you could never bend?
  3. What are you family habits? What is normal in the home of person A may be different in person B’s
  4. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
  5. Who are your closest friends? Do they have friends at all, or they have too much, what kind of friends are they.
  6. What was life like for you growing up?
  7. The saddest event in your life.
  8. What does success mean to you? For some it’s plenty money to buy the latest cars, shoes, bags etc. while for others it’s making an impact in the lives of others. Pay attention.
  9. Who is your role model?
  10. Do you consider yourself a religious person?
  11. Do you believe in God?
  12. What is the best you have accomplished so far? What is a relationship deal breaker for you?
  13. Are you more into looks or brains?
  14. Would you ever take back someone who cheated?
  15. . How do you feel about sharing your password with your partner?
  16. When do you think a person is ready for marriage?
  17. What kind of parent do you think you will be?
  18. Do you think it’s okay to involve 3rd parties in a misunderstanding?
  19. What would you do if your parents didn’t like your partner?
  20. Who is that one person you can talk to about just anything?
  21. Do you usually stay friends with your exes?
  22. Have you ever lost someone close to you?
  23. If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be left alone or have someone to cheer you up?
  24. What’s an ideal weekend for you?
  25. What do you think of best friends of the opposite sex? Relationships have ended because of this.
  26. Have you always been male or female? Haha! Remember it’s a transgender era.
  27. What did your past relationship teach you?
  28. What are your thoughts on online dating?
  29. What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done and would you do it again?
  30. When was that one time you compromised between right and wrong and why?
  31. What did you want to be when you were younger?
  32. Why did your last relationship end?
  33. What’s been your biggest mistake so far in life and what did you learn from it?
  34. What’s something you can’t go a day without doing?
  35. When was the one time you expressed extreme anger?
  36. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done for love?
  37. What is one dream you have yet to accomplish?
  38. What are three things you value most about a person?
  39. If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be?
  40. What’s one thing that bothers you most about the world today? For some it’s global warming, others, poverty. For me it’s moral decadence #grins that’s why I started this blog.
  41. What is the weirdest thing about you?
  42. What was your longest relationship?
  43. What would your best friend say is your best quality?
  44. If you could tell your former self one thing right now what would it be?
  45. What’s one thing you wish you knew how to do?
  46. What are some of your own personal goals in the next 5 years?
  47. Do you think it’s okay for partners to share tooth brush? Me, NO!
  48. How do you feel about family coming to live with us?
  49. If one of your siblings completely hates me, how would you handle it?
  50. Do you believe a man should do chores?
  51. What chores do you do?
  52. How would you handle your mother or father harassing me?
  53. What are your bad habits?
  54. Do you have any vices? Some people drink a lot, others gamble. Know your vices and fight them.
  55. Are you contented in your life, right now?
  56. Why do you think I am someone you’ll want to marry?
  57. What if we have a hard time having kids, how would you handle that?
  58. What phobias do you have? You should know if your man is Macho outside, but scared of common Cockroach. That should be a fun fact.
  59. Have you ever seen something you can’t explain? I once saw a plate moving on the floor on it’s own, and I’m not even joking.
  60. Is there an activity that calms you? A place or a thing that makes you feel at ease?
  61. What makes you feel uneasy? Overwhelmed? Anxious?
  62. One time you felt like a complete failure?
  63. What is your political affiliation? APC and PDP have been known to split couples apart.
  64. Tell me about the times someone broke your heart.
  65. What do you think about a man shedding tears?
  66. Are you comfortable with your woman taking care of the bills?
  67. What has been the biggest change you ever made that made you the most proud of yourself?
  68. What does a person giving you peace mean to you?
  69. What will you do with a million dollars right now?
  70. What is your source of income?
  71. Should the man wash his clothes when married or you believe it becomes his wife’s responsibility?
  72. What are your biggest strengths?
  73. What do you certainly do every single day of your life?
  74. What are unacceptable comments you could never tolerate?
  75. How do you believe love in marriage can be sustained?
  76. Can you allow pets in your home? Problem dey if one person loves cat and the other doesn’t.
  77. What meals do you never eat?
  78. How do you hope your kids will turn out as adults?
  79. In what situations do you believe, it’s okay to lie?
  80. Do you have any major debts?
  81. If you were wealthy and lost most of your wealth, or would you handle it?
  82. If you are not told something by your partner, do you count it as a lie?
  83. How would you handle disputes between your kids?
  84. Your biggest regret in life?
  85. Have you ever lost someone close to you?
  86. What is your near death experience?
  87. What’s one thing you want to achieve before you die?
  88. What is love to you? What actions define love?
  89. How many kids do you want to have?
  90. What do you believe is the biggest challenge in marriage?

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